I know this topic has been touched upon by various people but I still have to take my crack at it. In my experiences there are three scenarios that can occur when trying to get head. I have categorized each of these scenarios by the females involved in them. There is the "Pro", the "Closet Hoe", and the "Hell No."

The Pro is the easiest to identify, she's the type of female that is overly aggressive during foreplay meaning, she grabs and fondles, kissing you in places other then the lips. If you get the Pro you are a lucky man. You may not even have to ask for head. She might just bless you in the heat of the moment. If she doesn't take the initiative it is your responsibility to initiate the head action. During the foreplay activity, while she's kissing and grabbing everything, get her attention, look her straight in the eye and say, "Wassup with some head?" Since she is a pro she'll get to work... Mission accomplished...

Now lets face it, most of us are not lucky enough to get the Pro. The majority of us will end up with the Closet Hoe or the Hell No. The problem is that there are no distinct characteristics to differentiate them from each other. So it's basically a toss up (heads or tails...get it ;-). This is when it becomes hard to ask for head because you could either get the hesitated yes or the "no he didn't" facial expression.

To attack this problem you must first verify that you do not have the Pro. This is easy to do. She will not be overly aggressive with the foreplay. Her participation will be more of a natural progression. Once you've Xed out the Pro status, you have to figure out a way to get head. I am not and will not claim to be an expert in this matter. The only thing that I do know that is in this situation, the only way to get head is to have some special maneuver or ask. I have a few suggestions:

The Head Pat - During foreplay gently press down on her head directing her to your lower region.

The Guided Hand - During foreplay gently direct her hand to your lower region and hope for the best.

The Surprise Kiss - During foreplay ask her from a special kiss. When she attempts to kiss your lips stop her and direct her to your lower region (from the cruel intentions movie this really works).

Feel free to put your spin/style on any one of these methods. If it works for you, you can thank me for it later.

Stay tuned for part two of "How to Ask for Head." I will be discussing the different reactions between the "Closet Hoe" and the "Hell No."

**Disclaimer: Rey does not assume responsibility for actions occurring to those who take his advice and fail miserably**