There is no such thing as the right woman, just your best option. Sometimes the two might be one in the same but most of the time that is not the case. Many of you may be shocked and appalled by this statement but it is true. Most people go through this process of elimination with out even thinking about it. Most men gather a couple of females on their roster and decide which one they want to spend the most time with.

For example, if your dating a man and you only meet him at odd times during the day or night, like early afternoon or late at night, chances are your aren't at the top of his list. Alternatively if you are spending a lot of time with the guy with him you're probably close to or at the top of the list.

The right man or woman is a figment of our imagination, fairy tales that we are fed as children and believe as adults. No one in the world exists with all the qualities that we like or want in a person. Eventually, after endless searching, people get tired and settle for what they could get. Don't get it twisted, there's nothing wrong with settling. What happens to most people is that they get their hopes up so high that they can't bring themselves to settle with the best choice; they'd rather keep looking and get left alone.

If you can look at your partner and say they are everything you want in a man or woman you are either on drugs and delusional or lying through your teeth. Realizing early that you will end up with your best option will save yourself with a lot of disappointment later.