Many of you ladies were left disturbed (for lack of a better word) when you all read the "All Men Cheat" article I wrote. Mainly because I confirmed the doubts that you had in your man. One thing I didn't do was give you a reason why. Why do men cheat? Many have attempted at answering this question and I will attempt it as well.

First let me say what is not the reason men cheat. It is not because you are ugly, self conscience, self centered, getting fat, moving to fast, controlling, spoiled, too needed, annoying, talk to much, don't know when shut up, demanding or any other characteristic that females typically have. And is it not because he is afraid of commitment, insecure, a dog, needs to prove something to himself, getting tired of you, don't love (or like) you anymore, immature, inconsiderate, selfish, or any other excuse you females make to explain your man. The reason why men cheat is because other men tell them to. That's it, it's that simple...

Now that we have that covered, let's talk about a lighter topic like sports. This is the worst time of year for me when it comes to sports because the football season is over (my favorite). Now I have March Madness to keep me occupied and...

-- WAIT!@!... Rey you have to explain yourself what do you mean, "... other men tell them to..."?!? --

Well if I must. When guys are growing up they learn how to treat females by what they see and hear from their peers. It doesn't take long to realized that having multiple girlfriend, sex partners, etc. is socially accepted amongst the male species. So, in becoming a man one must follow suit and do what is expected. When I was a young lad someone told me, "The only thing better than pussy, is new pussy." That statement stuck with me for a long time. That quote, or something along those lines, is what most fellas are being taught today about how to treat females. And it is being reinforced everywhere. For example, I picked up an CD from best buy to look at it. I saw three dudes on the cover with 15 chicks around them. It doesn't take a mathematician to realize that those dudes were out numbered. If you divide them up equally you will see that every one guy on the album has five females to themselves. This is telling me that I should have a least five girls on my roster on any given Sunday. Who am I to go against the grain.

But then I realized the way I was taught was wrong and I should care enough about someone not to cheat on them and to really devote all my time and energy into that one person to really try to make things work for the best :-)



(that last line was put in just in case any of my EXs or future girlfriends are reading... I mean.. um... that statement came from the bottom of my heart)