I hate when chicks say that they're looking for someone to be there for them all the time. Like, who wants someone there ALL THE TIME... Do you really want someone there for you while you're taking a number two in the bathroom? No. The fact is it is better to have someone who isn't there for you all the time because that gives you the opportunity to appreciate the time that they are there more.

So ladies and gentlemen what I'm trying to say here is to not be there for your girl/man or whoever you'er currently dating, you should be anywhere but there. You should only be there when it's absolutely necessary...

Your probably wondering now, "When is it absolutely necessary?" Well today is your lucky day because the absolutely necessary times are listed below.

When you hittin it
This may be a no brainer but it can get tricky. This instance when you should be there also includes the time your are there that leads up to you hitting it. For example lets say you're out on a date, you know... dinner... movie... sex, the only thing you may be thinking about is the sex portion of the night but if your not mentally there and interacting during the dinner and movie you may not get the sex at the end of the night. So you have to be there during the dinner and there during movie so that you can be there hitting it. Get it?


When you got caught cheating
Everyone slips up one time or another and gets caught cheating. If this happens you definitely have to be there for your girl or man because at this point they're mad as hell and either thinking about leaving or getting even. You have to be around to secure your spot with that person until you're out of the storm and everything clears up.

That's basically my two cents... 'til next time...